Ok, so I am talking with this guy for the third time by phone. Have not met yet. He just gets done complimenting me saying I am attractive and smart, then he says to me “Are you weird?”. I am wondering, “What does he mean by “weird'”. I mean, “weird” means different things to different people. Besides, what does he expect? Am I going to say, “Yeah, I am really weird, Joe,”? He says, “These women I am meeting on the internet are really weird.” I urge him for an example. He says, “Well, one says she is a little overweight and we meet and she is huge, you know about 100 pounds overweight.”
I reply, “That’s not weird, that’s dishonest,” wondering if he had requested a recent picture before the meeting. Before I could ask, he says, “And another one told me she had gone out to dinner with a guy and when she got home he texted her and asked her to get on the computer with a camera. When she did, he had exposed himself to her on camera, so she won’t meet anyone after dark. Weird!”
I reply, “I don’t think that’s weird at all. ” He says, “Well if you are riding a bike and fall off, you just get back up and ride” I reply, ‘Yeah, and you be more careful next time when you see a pothole, you avoid it!”
Seriously, doesn’t he see that she did get back up and ride by talking with him and making plans to meet him? Now I am wondering if HE is weird! Maybe, I’m weird for not telling him to bug off!